Friday, March 06, 2009

Random Post

This post is inspired by a Christian session I had this morning(which partly contributes to my sore throat, flu and slight fever).

I'm not repeating what has been said this morning, but this post is actually directed to someone. Lol. Seriously.

First of all, if you want to be loved, let yourself be loved. Open up, let the ones who love you love you. Never doubt others' love towards you, and accept the love with an open heart. If they're being nice to you, just accept it and appreciate it. Do not feel debted; they are willing to do so. Let them feel appreciated. It's not like they will always have the chance to love you, do they?

I dislike this scenario(though I sometimes am one of them):

Friend A : The food is nice, eh?
Friend B : Sure, sure. Of course.
Friend A : (asks the food stall owner) Taukeh, how much altogether ah?
Stall owner: RM110. I discount already.
Friend B : Come, I chia you. Give me the bill please.
Friend A : Aiya no needlah...I pay for this meallah...
Friend B : Never mind. Don't have to feel indebted.
Friend A : No need no need. I pay.
Friend B : I paylah...only small amount of money. You treat me as friend or not?
Friend A : Aiya very paisehleh...you pay for me...never mindlah I paylah...
Friend B : I say I pay!
Friend A : I pay!
Friend B : !!!
Friend A : !!!
Stall owner: Aiya calm down.
Friend A and Friend B : SHUT UP!!!

Is there any benefit by doing that? No right? If Friend B insists on wanting to treat you, just let him be. It's not lie he'll always have the chance to treat you. Let him love you and be nice to you. You can always do that to him also.

One more thing. There's no such thing as "indebted" or "buat baik dibalas baik" when you're loving someone. By doing so you will not love those who does not love you. So erase those oxymoronic words and phrases up there from your mind. I'm the type that dislikes people to feel indebted or paiseh with me.

Just love with no regrets, and let yourself be loved. More importantly, appreciate those who love you=)