Monday, September 19, 2011

A Letter To My Future Boyfriend/Husband

Dear you,

If you someday get to be my boyfriend, I hope you will come across reading my blog. I have told my friends that if I were to get married to you, I do not need a diamond ring (if you want to give me CAN). All I need is a simple ring engraved with "ILY". This is because I'll put you above me. I was involved in a relationship before and I knew how did I love someone. It kind of failed which kind of made me hurt and upset, but now no more. I was hurt for a period of time because of the broken relationship. I even lost myself.

Guess what? I met someone who actually lifted the pain away from me and I stopped feeling hurt thanks to that someone. I had this liking towards this someone and in fact I even thought that I had fallen in love to him. But it was one-sided so I guess I should forget about it. Never mind. Anyway I should thank him somehow (there'll be a chance).

I am currently comfortable being single but if you are to enter my life I hope these are the things you can do to me:

1) Be loyal.
2) Never lie.
3) Make me feel secure, so that I can trust you wholeheartedly.
4) Love me and allow me to love you.
5) Allow me to be myself and don't try to change me.

These five things may seem simple but most men cannot do all 5 of these. But I hope when we someday meet and you read this you're prepared to do all these 5 things for me. It's because once you enter my life I'll give up my freedom for you, and freedom means a lot to me.

Anyway, if you were to be mine, the primary reason is because of your heart. Probably your looks attract me, but it's your heart that makes me give mine to you.

p/s: Whoever you are, please don't laugh when you read this!!! This is one freaking random letter okay? ==

Regards.